Laid Off

Today, the stigma of being laid off has diminished. It is quite common for companies to downsize, and it doesn't necessarily reflect the actions of the employee. Do not feel this is something you need to hide or feel ashamed of.

Wish your co-workers good luck. Leave on an optimistic and positive note. Do not act as though you are being fired. You want to secure as many contacts and future references as possible.

Get on the phone. Send out a mass emailing and inform friends and business contacts why you were laid-off before they receive misinformation from another source. Let everyone know how they can reach you in the future and what kinds of positions you hope to pursue.

Do not encourage people to feel sorry for you. Pity will not earn you the respect you need to get a job.

Take people up on their offers. Especially in the beginning, people will offer to take you to lunch and send news your way. This is a golden networking opportunity that you should take advantage of while it lasts.

Wait for the one you want. Avoid the temptation to take any job offer that comes your way out of fear of not having a job. Clearly finances play an important role, but if you accept something that makes you miserable, you'll be unemployed again in no time.

Plan something positive to keep your spirits up. The weekend after your last day, go on a trip or a shopping spree. If you're watching your budget, spend the day relaxing in a museum. This will refresh your energy.

Establish a daily routine until you have your next position. Include "work hours" when you will search for jobs and assign yourself tasks. Set realistic goals such as when you will have your résumé complete, how many letters you will send out each day, and when you should have your first interview.